My methodology for the treatment of sexually compulsive behavior is to implement healthy boundaries, develop self directed behavior management, increase empathy for those impacted, and develop authenticity and a defined sense of self. In my time in practice these are the issues that appear most prevalent and it is my goal to help each individual live a more fulfilling version of their life.

When working those that struggle personality disorders/features that impact their relationships, I have found that the development of an observing ego is beneficial and this is done through direct feedback, empathy building conversation, and support in session. I have found that this helps people increase their ability to be honest with themselves and in their relationships, leading to deeper intimacy and connection with loved ones.

In betrayal trauma and addiction recovery, there is a threat of the relationship maintaining a “status quo” despite both people engaging in recovery. In my relational work, we identify what the status quo might be, what patterns people engage in and contribute to, and how to go about shifting those unhelpful patterns through utilization of emotional focused therapy and the development of a strong relationship foundation.